Over the years, I was okay with being single with the expectation of avoiding any type of hurt. Yet early on I ended up in a relationship that wasn't necessarily the healthiest, allowing things that I wouldn't have normally allowed. Yet consciously aware that I was avoiding emotionally vulnerability. Ironically, he reminded me of my dad, hence their close relationship at the time. (That's another blog for another time). The experience coupled with that of my family past brought me to a crossroads of decisions to make in life.

A quick look at how I got into six figures of debt and my plan to tackle it day by day.